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GUIDELINES FOR MANNERS AND ETIQUETTE

Etiquette is the set of conventional rules of personal behaviour in polite society, usually in the form of an ethical code that describes the expected and accepted social behaviours that agree with the way of doing and norms observed by a society, a social class or a social group.

Say “Thank You”

When someone gives you a compliment or does something nice, the best response is a simple “Thank you.” Please also remember, “Please,” “Excuse me,” and “You’re welcome,” which are other marks of good manners.

Give Genuine Compliments

A basic rule of good manners is to give. When you meet someone, you can always think of a genuine compliment to give, along with your attention and interest. A “Hello” or “How are you?” is most often not enough. Be generous with sincere words of praise, warm greetings, sympathy, or whatever is appropriate to the occasion.

Don’t be Boastful, Arrogant or Loud

When in polite company, always exercise self-control and good taste. Your voice, your behaviour and even your clothing should reflect understated elegance. Please do not brag about accomplishments; a well-mannered person has no need for self-advertisement. Let your deeds speak for themselves.

Listen Before Speaking

Respect for others is a requirement of good manners. Listening to others is a way to show respect. Be genuinely interested in others; learn their names, and encourage them to talk about themselves. Never interrupt. Look them in the eye, and listen carefully.

Speak with Kindness and Caution

Before speaking to others, consider what effect your words will have. Also remember the language of the body (your posture and your mannerisms) is actually more important than the language of words.

Do Not Criticize or Complain

Negativity in any form is to be avoided. Ignore gossip; don’t participate. If you disagree with others, do so respectfully (agree to disagree).

Be Punctual

Appreciate the value of time, yours and others. If you make an appointment, arrive on time. If you must be late, call first. Never arrive early for a social engagement (this is fine in a business setting). Lingering good-byes merely cause frustration and can ruin an otherwise good time. A quick, simple exit at the proper time is usually appreciated.

Do Not Embarrass Others

Demeaning anyone with rude jokes or an unwelcome nickname is disrespectful. In conversation, never ask embarrassing questions about relationships, or asking how much was paid for something.

Act and Look Your Best

Take time and care in how you present yourself – both in appearance and in manners.